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S/M Courtesy

  • Support the play energy; keep voices down and socialize away from the play space
  • Verify interest beforehand
  • Respect requests to stop
  • Not everyone likes group activities; don't join a scene in progress without an invitation
  • Situate your verbal scenes so you don't disturb someone else's trip
  • Tops: force only the willing, know their limits and turn-offs
  • bottoms: communicate needs, and health or medical concerns up front
  • Don't monopolize equipment
  • Notify someone in charge if you witness any dangerous or non-consensual activity